Each one of us has countless expectations in life . We imagine things to be the way we desire. We have lots of hope and unconditional love with this uncertain life we have dreams, passions, deeds, accomplishments to be part of our living!! Are we not setting up bars for our fulfillment, and again humiliate ourselves for not reaching the standards.
While nature was peaceful, a storm still raged in our heart centering around a single question: Why can’t I have what I want? You don’t realize why it happens? and when it does you will not have an explanation and it can throw us into the deepest valleys of gloom. In those times helpless we cry out to a higher power to make things better, we get blank stares into emptiness wondering what the meaning of life is? Asking the invisible you? why if things are extremely tough, struggling hard to find solutions for the hidden pain!
Each one of us have been there many times. for all sorts of reasons. Breakup, Financial Issues, Career Accomplishments, there are a million things that can put you into this frame of mind. You know what you need more than anything, but no concern what you do, nature just doesn’t seem to give it to you, Why? Why can’t things just be easier, simpler? Why can’t things get better? Why can’t we get what we want?
We create chaos all in our mind we don’t realize the fact of an unknown future!! We intend to fight with facts. We keep living, guessing about tomorrow forgetting encounters of past learning, and losing enthusiasm to live today.
“There’s a reason for everything. If it’s meant to be.”
“Time heals all our wounds.”
The more we hear this fortune cookie advice, the angrier we become and the whole time, we continue to beg the higher power to fix everything and be predators of being dependent. If someone or something always fixed everything for us all the time, we would never learn anything. More than that, we would never be able to do anything for ourselves in life. we would always be dependent on someone or something else to make things better for us.
Sometimes in life things happen that can be unmanageable, and often they can be extremely painful. We must thrust through those moments where everything seems lost. When we do, we find a new us on the other side that is wiser and more beautiful than we ever imagined. By working through these challenging transitions in life, we grow into something unique, better, stronger.